The Root
First, read this article written by Joyce Meyer who had struggled with her identity, which was rooted in her past.
I want you to think and meditate on what the root cause may be. Ask God. We need to first discover the cause of why we feel the way we feel. Were you physically, mentally, and sexually abused as a child? Were you told you were worthless? That they wished you were never born? Were you abandoned by a parent or someone close? Have you been reject or were you never shown love as a child?
The things that happened to us as children affect us today. It is up to us to discover the bad things, the roots, and make our journey to self-healing and deliverance. It doesn’t happen overnight but it’s a process; so be patient.
Draw Near to God 